Connecting with Deceased Loved Ones

It is quite normal for a loved one's visits to become less frequent and less powerful as time passes. While you may miss the presence of your loved one, be assured that this is actually a good sign that his or her soul is adapting to the higher realms and their astral body is being absorbed into the light. This doesn't mean that she won't be able to visit you. Her visits may be less noticeable because her vibration will be higher than what humans typically sense during our hurried days when our brains are at beta brainwave stage.

If you take time to reach the stillness of your own heart, you will raise your vibration and enter alpha or theta brainwave stage (http://www.finerminds.com/mind-power/brain-waves/) where you are more likely to sense her presence and share a sweet exchange of loving energy. (Delta, or deep sleep, is also a time when you might connect.) During these peaceful meditation moments, you may also be able to connect with other family members who are of a high vibration.

Those spirits who are manipulative have a denser astral body and you will likely be able to sense their presence more easily. They are a closer match to the vibration of the earth plane and its chaos. You can tell them to "take a hike" any time they bother you. Your personal energy field and private space is yours to control. You do not have to be bothered by these spirits.

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For more information, you might enjoy reading my book, More Than Meets the Eye True Stories about Death, Dying, and Afterlife. Purchase paperback on Amazon.com. It's also on Amazon as an e-book for those who have Kindle or Sony Readers. The audio book is now available!
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Empowering Hour with Empaths on Thursday!

"Empowering Hour with Empaths" is here! Yvonne Perry, author of numerous books, and guest co-host Veronica O'Grady bring this special 1-hour online webcast to you!

It seems a lot of “deceased” family members made visits during the holidays. We will be talking about why empaths are able to see, hear, sense, and even smell when a ghost is around.

When: Thursday, January 9th at 2:00 p.m. Central Time  

There are three ways to attend:

1. Attend online: http://InstantTeleseminar.com/?eventID=48749115
2. By phone: (425) 440-5100 (or, check for a local dial-in number at http://InstantTeleseminar.com/Local/) use Pin Code: 187842#
3. Connect with Skype: Add joinconference as a contact and initiate a session. Once connected, select show dial pad from the Call menu and enter guest pin code 187842#  '

If you know you’re an empath, or know you are..
• Highly sensitive to sounds, people, events, lights and situations
• Get thrown off-balance by them
• Have emotional cycles that don’t seem to be yours
• Not sure where your energy ends and others begins

....then this 1-hour online group call is for you!

Seasoned empaths and healers Yvonne Perry and Veronica O’Grady will answer your questions about how to handle energy in ways that make you feel stronger, more whole, centered, and stabilized.

Check the world time zone map for the correct time to tune in: http://www.worldtimezone.com/

For more info, click on the links below:
http://weare1inspirit.com
http://www.quantumalchemyhealing.com/3.html

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PURCHASE the paperback book, Whose Stuff Is This? Finding Freedom from the Thoughts, Feelings, and Energy of Those Around You at http://tinyurl.com/EmpathAmazon.
The e-book version is now available for Kindle, iPhone, iPad, and other digital reading devices on Smashwords.com. Get the PDF on the author's website: WeAreOneinSpirit.com.
Why not have someone read the book to you? Check out the audio book MP3 file version.

The author, Yvonne Perry, is available as a spiritual coach. See http://weare1inspirit.com/services/coaching/ for information about a free 15-minute evaluation to see if coaching is right for you.
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For more information, you might enjoy reading my book, More Than Meets the Eye True Stories about Death, Dying, and Afterlife. Purchase paperback on Amazon.com. It's also on Amazon as an e-book for those who have Kindle or Sony Readers. The audio book is now available!
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Can My Deceased Loved One Become My Spirit Guide?

I get this question many times, so I’ll answer it publically in hopes of helping many people find an answer.

Personally, I believe that we are all connected, so when one of us heals, the entire genetic line is positively affected. I also believe that we are aspects or expressions of our soul family and that we incarnate into the same genetic line (or in close proximity) many times over. Additionally, if you understand the concept of future selves and parallel or simultaneous lives, you might be able to accept that you or your child/grandchild could be a reincarnation of a forebear in your genetic line. We are in a period of time when human consciousness as a whole is shifting into a purer, more divine, form. Future and past selves, as well as advanced and highly evolved aspects, are merging with the soul that is in the body. Thus, you may have had some unusual situations or experiences and now feel like you have merged with others who were once in your current life or past lives. This is because that “other” person who played a role in your life was actually a very close member of your soul family/group or possibly even as aspect of your own essence. (I wrote about this on my Integrating Frequencies Blogger site.) With this being so, any “deceased” (I put that in scare quotes because the soul really never dies) loved one who wishes to assure that the DNA of a particular lineage remains on a path to spiritual ascension would be interested in helping his or her descendants stay on course.  But, what if the mother or grandfather that you knew in your current life has passed and you think this person has since become your guide? If a deceased loved one and you are working together on soul development, you may both be in body at the same time, or you may both be dis-incarnated at the same time. Or, one may be in body while the other serves as a helping spirit or guide from the other side. These partnerships are agreed upon at a soul level, so it's not likely that you can choose a deceased loved one to be your guide (they may have other work to do in the afterlife). If they are your guide, you will be aware of their presence a lot more often than just a brief stop-by every now and then.  It could be that your “deceased” loved one is keenly interested in you and your life just because of the love and the bond they had with you while you were both in body. They don’t want to lose that connection any more than you do, so they “hang out” with you quite frequently. I’ve seen this become a bother when the deceased fails to realize that those in body have boundaries and a need for privacy. Some may try to steer a human’s path by manipulating outcomes to their own liking, but that’s another article altogether.  Those family members, who are with you in spirit and respect your boundaries, may very well become a guide for you after they pass from the body. If there is vibrational compatibility and you are happy with your loved one being a spirit guide for you, then there’s no need to worry or take action other than to welcome them and remind them that you are still the one in control of your schedule and decisions. The guides that I wish to have around me are those who have been in a body and understand what it’s like to be human, but have gained an awakened, enlightened, or ascended status. I typically ask that my guides be at a vibrational frequency that is higher than that of my own soul.  I bet your next question is “how do I know if a loved one is with me?” They will give you signs that only you will recognize. Here are a few ways you can tell:  • They come to you in lucid dreams that are too real to shake off—these are spirit visitations • They appear to you in spirit form and you actually see them—this depends upon your ability to see apparitions • You encounter a smell that you associate with them • You keep hearing their favorite song • A photo of him or her keeps falling over • You feel someone sit next to you, touch you, hug you, or play with your hair but there’s no one physically there • You hear them call your name • You see someone who looks like them or whose mannerisms reminds you of them • You find items that belonged to the loved one in places that you least expect, and you swear that these weren’t there before or have been moved.  These are only a few ways you can tell if your loved one is with you. It is always best to use your own intuition and discernment to discover your own truth.  I invite you to visit my blog http://deathdyingafterlife.blogspot.com where you will find more information about death, dying, afterlife, and spirit communication, as well as my book, More Than Meets the Eye, on these same topics. See http://walkinsamongus.org if you are interested in learning more about soul merging, walk-ins, soul exchanges, and starseed integration.
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For more information, you might enjoy reading my book, More Than Meets the Eye True Stories about Death, Dying, and Afterlife. Purchase paperback on Amazon.com. It's also on Amazon as an e-book for those who have Kindle or Sony Readers. The audio book is now available!
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